Relationships and the law of attraction

Hello there it's Ed and I'd like to talk a little about what I am doing for the new product that we are working on. We are working on a law of attraction series, and I am working on a relationships affirmation that uses the law of attraction. It all started with a conversation with a friend- we were driving together on business and passing the time when we started talking about our relationships. My friend was going through some very hard times with his dear wife, and he was finding that he was getting angry when he talked to her. I listened for quite a while and started to hear a pattern in what he was telling me about his interactions with his wife. Please know that both this man and his wife are good, loving people, it's just that lately they are not very happy together.

I tried not to give advice, because I didn't want to do that, but I did talk about a similar situation with my marriage, and how I dealt with that. We did have something in common in our relationship experiences. Essentially, it boiled down to keeping my side of the street clean, and supporting the other person in a difficult time- that's right- supporting and loving the person you are having conflict with! What a concept! In my case I noticed that resentment was taking me over. It took a while, but I started to feel- to know- the feeling of resentment and consciously changed my thoughts every time I had the "resentment feeling." I imagined my resentments going away and happy thoughts filling their place. I became the person I most wanted to be with- someone who is loving, supporting, and caring... Someone who was loving enough to let go and get out of the other person's way long enough for each of us to find out what our needs were at the time. You know what? Things got better for both of us. Does that sound like attracting what I want for a change?

So you ask what would be a good affirmation for being the person (or at least having the qualities of the person) that you most want to be with? Take a minute and visualize that person you most appreciate right this moment. What qualities come to mind first? Do they include Compassion? Playfulness? Openness? Joy? That is what comes to me. By visualizing that person I can see the things that I would like to bring to my relationship the most- even when there is conflict. Sure, we have differences of opinion, but that rarely matters for the lasting things in life. What remains most constant is the love that underlies relationships. The affirmation that I came up with is:

I bring to my relationships compassion, playfulness, openness, and joy so that others may do the same.

I encourage you to try this affirmation out, and visualize yourself this way. Visualize your loved ones this way. Hey, I didn't say it would be easy at first! Keep it going until you feel good about the visualization and can recall it easily. You can do it! Tell me how it goes. I know that those of us that desire to make our relationships happy, and our love life sizzle can and will succeed.

All the best to you are your loved ones,
Ed.

Staying focused on the GOOD.

Hi - this is Mike with Clear Thought Systems. We are talking about the transforming power of affirmations and I've got a perfect example to tell you about. At Clear Thought systems we use our product, and we use affirmations for our daily life and growth. We have seen how it has changed our lives for the better, and we have also seen the change in family and friends, too.

A colleague in my office was going through a divorce. His two children were moving 300 miles away, and he was under lots of stress with the move. I saw that he was angry and depressed so I gave him a set of our THOUGHT SHIFTERS™ clings one day. I forgot about giving him the clings, and several weeks later he sent me this email:

"I've used these affirmations around my home, car and office to help remind me of who I am - a loving and caring father. My kids are always in my thoughts and, even though we are many miles apart and I miss them very much, the affirmations help keep me focused on the good in the situation. "

This is not an uncommon story for us to hear. Lots of us have changes occur in our lives and struggle to keep the focus on who we really are, and what we are capable of achieving. My colleague's struggle to remain true to himself and to his children in a difficult time easier having constant reminders to guide his focus. We are so happy to have a business that helps people. It is a source of the feeling of gratitude for us to remember that our business makes the world a better place, one thought at a time.

All the best to you- if you have any stories about THOUGHT SHIFTERS™ clings have helped you or a friend in your life please post a comment here.

Mike.

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life

Fun + Abundant = “Funbundant”

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http://www.clearthoughtsystems.com

Our company, Clear Thought Systems, Inc., makes THOUGHT SHIFTERS™, which are empowering affirmations that help you attract the life you desire.

THOUGHTSHIFTERS™ are the creation of four partners who comprise the company from Portland, Oregon. We have a dream of creating a line of products that help people create the life they dream of, one thought at a time.

We believe in the Universal Law of Attraction–basically, “you get back what you put out.” So, when you hold a thought for long enough, that thought - whether positive or negative – becomes your experience. THOUGHT SHIFTERS™ affirmations cling to most surfaces -- walls, car dashboards, mirrors, computer monitors, notebooks etc.

Place the “clings” where you hang out the most so you can see them frequently. As you repeat the uplifting messages every day, internalize the ideas, and stay focused on your good, you attract what you want to experience in your life. You can change your life one thought at a time!

THOUGHT SHIFTERS™ combine a powerful life-tool with artful design. They’re colorful, fun, and look great anywhere they’re placed. AND….another cool thing about this product (besides the fact that they are positively life-changing!) ™ is that each affirmation “cling” is removable and reusable--like a sticky-note--so they don’t leave behind any sticky stuff and you can take your powerful reminders with you wherever you go!

Check out the products on our website at www.clearthoughtsystems.com. Do you use affirmations in your daily life? We'd love to hear about your experiences using them.

Funbundantly,
Nena Thomas, Conde Bartlett, Mike Thomas, Ed Bartlett
Owners, Clear Thought Systems, Inc.